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I love that you gave yourself 'permission' to let out all of your feelings instead of keeping them stuffed inside, showing a brave but fake Medha. I can almost feel your relief as you processed these feelings instead of denying them.

Levity of artwork with a serious message for us all. Thank you, Medha.

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Love this 🫶🏽🫶🏽 I am needing more and more ways to process and feel my feelings in my body. This hit home for me 🙌🏽❤️‍🔥💞

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I loved this story through pictures today. I personally never think anger is bad - it's just an emotion that needs a place to move through and as you stated it is often a cover for sadness for disappointments that we haven't given voice to.....sending you so much love Medha. What you have been through and continue to experience is hard as fuck. You are a shining light for all of us......big love big love big love

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Dec 8, 2023Liked by Medha Murtagh

Loved the BS bugle drawing 💖 I find it a tad difficult to read upper and lower case in the same word, otherwise the text size was fine. Well done for getting through to the sadness that the anger was covering up. Sending hugs xx

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This was wonderful. I'm very impressed you can self reflect so well when you are in anger. That is a big trip up point for me. And your handwriting is very easy to read! No particular favourite drawing as they all resonated well. I did get a bit teary at the one of you hugging yourself...perfect antidote for the verbose angry one. Thanks for these!

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Dec 8, 2023Liked by Medha Murtagh

Love it. Sitting here, angry, this was the best thing to read for me 😅I’m looking at the Rage bandaid over Grief, realising that maybe I’m just sad, not mad.

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I love this! And your writing is totally legible. Thanks for sharing.

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Loved your 'decree' drawing the most :-D I want your inner voice to know that I hear them too and understand their desire - even need - to hold on to something pleasurable and soothing. I wouldn't want to give up hot water bottles either. Especially NOT for ice cold ones. I mean, your chiro is right an all, but ice packs aren't fun. Although... I have cajoled myself into using an ice pack when my head and neck were inflamed a few times, and it did reduce the inflammation (when nothing else would) and helped A LOT.

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I so love your comics and the beautiful relationship that you have cultivated with your inner kid. Also your “voice” is so loving and soothing to read through all the panels and stories you tell! And funny. My fave panel this time was ye olde Renaissance Medha blowing the BS horn. 🤣

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Dec 8, 2023Liked by Medha Murtagh

Love all of this! 💜 glad you were in a safe space to be able to go through the process in the moment it happened

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Yasss, been there.

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Dec 8, 2023Liked by Medha Murtagh

Love this!!!

So real. 💕

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Awesome post, Medha! I love the permission to be cross, because you needed to be. Hugs hugs hugs.

I find Christmas particularly difficult - type 1 diabetes is a PITA at the best of times, but I'm currently fighting the mental struggle of whether I should stick with my everyday low-carb boundaries for the festive period for an easy life in terms of knowing exactly how much insulin to take with my 'normal' fare, against the whole 'heck, I deserve this, but is it worth the risk of getting it wrong and going low/high/insane from the stress of it all?!' 🤣

Your post has reminded me that I need to grant myself permission to be frustrated by the challenges, and whatever I decide will be okay.

And for that, dear Medha, thank you! 😘

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Omg, the "i'm so sick of being limited" drawing resonated soooo much! Loved this post, you talented badger

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